Again I ask - Who is the you?
There is no true you.
When you create another person, you see you as the other.
When you are alone, the you is the one left over, the remainder, but in truth the you is no more than the dreamer, the creator of the reality.
It's easier to see in dreams, when you awake you know you were the dreamer and none of the dream characters.
The waking world is much more convincing, but no more important that a dream that ends.
It's constant stability is a requirment of a more denser dream state.
How do you find the dreamer, in the dense reality called everyday life?
That's easy............find the most simpliest of things.......and there you are
.............the container, the watcher, the point of reference that never leaves, only ever becomes full and covered up with content and form.