YATL posts and videos can be viewed here on this site. Your financial support makes it possible to continue offering information on this website free of charge.
Please make a donation.

You Will Never Become Enlightened

Nope. Nuh-uh. Never gonna happen. Sorry.

…but first we need to clarify what is meant by the word “you.”

By “you” I mean your separate self, the individual who has a name, gender, eye color, and nationality.

See, when most people start learning a new skill or developing a new talent, it’s “me” who does the hard work to hopefully accomplish the goal. This is what self-improvement is all about. You know… “You can lose 20 pounds in 30 days!” or “You can become a millionaire!”

Enlightenment is very different in this respect. “You” don’t become enlightened. It’s not a quality or characteristic you can learn, develop, or obtain.

Enlightenment is the realization of your true nature as the One.

It’s the realization of what you already are, beyond the illusion. It’s not becoming something new that you aren’t now.

Enlightenment is the realization of the Self. Self-realization. The false self that is identified with various characteristics that make it separate and distinct from the All… that is the false self that must totally be disidentified with.

The idea of becoming an “enlightened person” is itself fundamentally flawed. When you look at a person who has awakened, what you’re seeing is Consciousness itself communicating through a physical body. It’s not a mind or ego or collection of thoughts that are being blabbered out by the body. There is only the One speaking to the One.

“Okay cool. So I’ll become Consciousness.”

You can’t become Consciousness because you already ARE Consciousness.

The “problem,” if you will, is that there is a false mind-made self pretending to be something other than what it is… confident, shy, happy, sad, masculine, feminine…

In Reality, there isn’t a separate I that tries to be something other than itself. See, we traditionally think that the process moves from unenlightenment to enlightenment and in appearance, that is how it works.

There’s nothing special you have to do, no skills you have to obtain, nothing more to learn, nowhere you have to go.

The mythical “stairway to heaven” is an illusion. Heaven, like enlightenment, is right here, right now. Really.

Enlightenment is the realization is that there’s nothing you have to do and no one you have to become, except to be exactly who you are right now.

“But I’m being myself! I’m doing what I love. I’m honest and open with people. I never try to change who I am to get the approval of others. I’m being authentic. Shouldn’t I automatically become enlightened, according to that statement?”

You’re identifying with the false you. The one that does things in this world, the actor on the stage, the experiencer of this physical world. None of things are you. They are things the body and mind does as it acts upon the stage of Life. This actor can play many roles, but no matter what role the actor is playing, you are still you.

Who is the You that is unchanging, eternal, and forever present?

THAT is the real you. That is the Self. The Self is always here regardless of external appearances. Enlightenment is not the actor, the false self, becoming the true Self.

It is the complete and total dissolution of the false self as the one that’s identified with. It’s about seeing through the illusion of separation and no longer buying into it.

Enlightenment is the realization of who you truly are: The One. The Unified All That Is. The Infinite.

  Continued Discussion | Post a Forum Comment 

_______________________________________________________________________________________

If you enjoyed this article, subscribe to updates via RSS, Twitter or email to receive fresh content free of charge.

This site is supported by your generous donations. If this site has provided you with value, consider donating as a way of expressing your appreciation. =)


Bookmark and Share
Print This Article Print This Article

Related Posts


4 Responses to “You Will Never Become Enlightened”

  1. No Labels? No Spiritual Path? Beyond Concepts? | All Considering said:

    [...] Apply this to words and you get that the words aren’t what’s important – it’s what the words are pointing to that matters. (Western) Zen Buddhists often take this very seriously – to the extent of being negative about books, negative about following precepts, in some cases even negative about Zen rituals. Recently I’ve read someone who claims that there is no path, just BE (where have I heard that before?)… [...]

  2. TJones said:

    Through realizations or seeing through the illusions of a false self, the ego can be dissolved down to one little point in the chest. The anxiety of completely letting go makes that last attachment very strong.
    Do you have any realizations or insights that may help completely dissolve the false self?

    Ariel Bravy Reply:

    That anxiety is just another thing to surrender. More ego stuff. Fear of death. It’s one of the primary blocks to full realization.

  3. Jonathan said:

    I have heard of someone who has said they had a completely different experience as a child. They said in the middle of their sleep they had a full detachment from their ego and it was like the ego itself was completely falling away and they had the opportunity to fully break away from their ego and live fully enlightened in human form. They had the opportunity to leave the body or stay in it. They said they felt seperate from their ego and even called it a “he”, and that they told the oneness that “he” (the ego) “was not ready yet” and they could understand other’s thoughts and everything. They said this detachement from the ego was not forced on them and they decided to stay in their ego instead of shed it. They said they had a short time to decide whether they wanted to stay or go. They said it was frightening, and that if they decided to do that they would not be able to live in normal society. They also said they knew they were all one with everything. They said that experience was more real than what they were experiencing in that moment they were sharing that with me. Have you experienced anything like that?

Comment on the Forums

Blog comments are now closed. You may continue this discussion in the Forums by following the link below.


  Continued Discussion | Post a Forum Comment