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		<title>By: Kaushik</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kaushik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 15:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Binnoy/Ariel,
My experience was similar to Binnoy&#039;s and it may be helpful to share. Being in the Now is a powerful technique. Alan Watts said the Now is it. However, for quite some time the feeling of being in the Now felt artificial and lifeless to me. I realize now that there was a lot of grasping going on (Krishnmurti called it &quot;becoming.&quot;) When there is this feeling of lurching, we are not present, we are trying to be present, and that&#039;s not the same. Persistence can help. It can also help to be present with what is already present: body sensations, breath, perceptions.

The technique of Inquiry, as you said deconstructing beliefs, can be effective for some. I have a strong intellectual leaning, so my mind immediately wants to analyze and form ideas. In this case, what helped was the intention to rely only on direct experience, not on beliefs or concepts, not even spiritual concepts. Abiding in the sense of I AM is helpful to some in this case, but I can&#039;t consistently find the sense of I AM; aware of awareness works better for me.

Emotional healing certainly smooths out the turmoil that can come up. For me, the Sedona Method is effective, as well as heart techniques like gratitude, acceptance, forgiveness, metta meditation and so on.

Of course this is my experience. Yours will be completely your own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Binnoy/Ariel,<br />
My experience was similar to Binnoy&#8217;s and it may be helpful to share. Being in the Now is a powerful technique. Alan Watts said the Now is it. However, for quite some time the feeling of being in the Now felt artificial and lifeless to me. I realize now that there was a lot of grasping going on (Krishnmurti called it &#8220;becoming.&#8221;) When there is this feeling of lurching, we are not present, we are trying to be present, and that&#8217;s not the same. Persistence can help. It can also help to be present with what is already present: body sensations, breath, perceptions.</p>
<p>The technique of Inquiry, as you said deconstructing beliefs, can be effective for some. I have a strong intellectual leaning, so my mind immediately wants to analyze and form ideas. In this case, what helped was the intention to rely only on direct experience, not on beliefs or concepts, not even spiritual concepts. Abiding in the sense of I AM is helpful to some in this case, but I can&#8217;t consistently find the sense of I AM; aware of awareness works better for me.</p>
<p>Emotional healing certainly smooths out the turmoil that can come up. For me, the Sedona Method is effective, as well as heart techniques like gratitude, acceptance, forgiveness, metta meditation and so on.</p>
<p>Of course this is my experience. Yours will be completely your own.</p>
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		<title>By: Ariel Bravy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ariel Bravy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 02:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Emotional healing and awakening are both wonderful things, but they are different things. They may assist one another, but they are different.

If you feel guided to heal yourself, do that. If you feel guided to awaken, ask yourself who is it that wants to awaken and who is it that needs to be healed in the first place, and do that.

But both are valuable experiences. When you become fully enlightened, there will be nothing left to heal in yourself, and no more negative emotion experienced in the first place.

Also, it can be helpful to bring awareness into the &quot;past&quot; now and help let it go from time to time, certainly. No need to ignore energies that arise in the moment. This doesn&#039;t mean that you need to go in and fix every single thing wrong with you, because if you ask your mind what&#039;s wrong, it can come up with an infinite number of responses, and you&#039;ll be digging forever. 

Your emotions are not separate from the now. Your mind is not separate from the now. It&#039;s all happening in the now. It&#039;s not like only the experiences happening outside your body are the Now. EVERYTHING exists in the now. If you feel energy arise within you, bring awareness to it and allow it to be, in the now. No need to segregate the past from the now, because it&#039;s really all now anyways. The past is not the past, but an energy you&#039;re bringing up in the now and calling past.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emotional healing and awakening are both wonderful things, but they are different things. They may assist one another, but they are different.</p>
<p>If you feel guided to heal yourself, do that. If you feel guided to awaken, ask yourself who is it that wants to awaken and who is it that needs to be healed in the first place, and do that.</p>
<p>But both are valuable experiences. When you become fully enlightened, there will be nothing left to heal in yourself, and no more negative emotion experienced in the first place.</p>
<p>Also, it can be helpful to bring awareness into the &#8220;past&#8221; now and help let it go from time to time, certainly. No need to ignore energies that arise in the moment. This doesn&#8217;t mean that you need to go in and fix every single thing wrong with you, because if you ask your mind what&#8217;s wrong, it can come up with an infinite number of responses, and you&#8217;ll be digging forever. </p>
<p>Your emotions are not separate from the now. Your mind is not separate from the now. It&#8217;s all happening in the now. It&#8217;s not like only the experiences happening outside your body are the Now. EVERYTHING exists in the now. If you feel energy arise within you, bring awareness to it and allow it to be, in the now. No need to segregate the past from the now, because it&#8217;s really all now anyways. The past is not the past, but an energy you&#8217;re bringing up in the now and calling past.</p>
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		<title>By: BINNOY</title>
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		<dc:creator>BINNOY</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 20:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Ariel
I just had a doubt about something.
It is said that enlightment is all about seeing the world as it is.But isnt this an effect that one experiences only after enlightment(i.e once one gets enlightened, automatically he/she surrenders to the now moment) or is it that surrendering and accepting the now moment without resistance is also one of the fastest way to enlightment(or may be a meditative state that leads to growth of conciousness).

I had been following a bit different approach for so long. In every given moment, i used to track back any belief i had about anything or any subject, stay with the sensation corresponding to that belief and then sit with it until and unless it was released.Do you feel that in this approach i am taking my awareness to a past issue and thus resisting the now moment.I would have to say that though i take my awareness to a belief formed due to an unresolved past issue,i dont get entangled in the thinking process.I just remain with the feeling of it.

How different is witnessing the now moment as it is different from emotional healing since even emotional healing can take place only in the now moment.

Now would witnessing the now moment as it is give me the same results as emotional healing.Wont the trapped in emotions inside come out to the surface since now when the mind is atlast silent(which happened as an effect of witnessing the now moment as it is)there is nothing to stop these emotions from releasing out.
Isnt it true that many of the people who attain enlightment hardly know anything about emotional healing.They do this through meditation which is nothing else than witnessing the moment without resistance.

I often get confused on how to approach the current moment after knowing about these two wonderful ways.
Would be waiting patiently for your answer.
With Love ALWAYS
BINNOY</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Ariel<br />
I just had a doubt about something.<br />
It is said that enlightment is all about seeing the world as it is.But isnt this an effect that one experiences only after enlightment(i.e once one gets enlightened, automatically he/she surrenders to the now moment) or is it that surrendering and accepting the now moment without resistance is also one of the fastest way to enlightment(or may be a meditative state that leads to growth of conciousness).</p>
<p>I had been following a bit different approach for so long. In every given moment, i used to track back any belief i had about anything or any subject, stay with the sensation corresponding to that belief and then sit with it until and unless it was released.Do you feel that in this approach i am taking my awareness to a past issue and thus resisting the now moment.I would have to say that though i take my awareness to a belief formed due to an unresolved past issue,i dont get entangled in the thinking process.I just remain with the feeling of it.</p>
<p>How different is witnessing the now moment as it is different from emotional healing since even emotional healing can take place only in the now moment.</p>
<p>Now would witnessing the now moment as it is give me the same results as emotional healing.Wont the trapped in emotions inside come out to the surface since now when the mind is atlast silent(which happened as an effect of witnessing the now moment as it is)there is nothing to stop these emotions from releasing out.<br />
Isnt it true that many of the people who attain enlightment hardly know anything about emotional healing.They do this through meditation which is nothing else than witnessing the moment without resistance.</p>
<p>I often get confused on how to approach the current moment after knowing about these two wonderful ways.<br />
Would be waiting patiently for your answer.<br />
With Love ALWAYS<br />
BINNOY</p>
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		<title>By: Ariel Bravy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ariel Bravy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a way of putting it. :)</description>
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		<title>By: preeti</title>
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		<dc:creator>preeti</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its like a Screen on which a movie is screened and screen is not affected at all is it that kind of state ? non attached ,witness state.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its like a Screen on which a movie is screened and screen is not affected at all is it that kind of state ? non attached ,witness state.</p>
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		<title>By: Marko</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 17:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well Ariel, this sounds like a temporary state people get in where by the mind is extremely quiet like being on natural tranquilizers.

It&#039;s interesting and fascinating to hear your articulation of it.  How long will this last is the million dollar question.

I like when you end with &quot;A big and critical difference that&#039;s present this time is not trying to hold onto this experience, but allowing whatever is to be. Whether I’m enlightened or unenlightened is totally okay. All options are completely acceptable. There’s no clinging to any experience. There’s just stillness.&quot;

&quot;Not holding on to the experience but allowing whatever is to be&quot; is probably going to extend the length of the experience.

What interest me is, if this is a prolonged experience of weeks or more etc. and you stay on this level of beingness, how does that change the way if at all, how you respond to the world or others etc. Do desires now take a back seat or front seat? Neither or both, or something else?

What do you do if anything different when you really hit what would be termed a very negative experience or high frustration that would put you in a place where you had to process your emotions to find your way back a certain equilibrium. Or does that simply not show uP?  Or, if it does, the process work of the past is not needed as you accept and surrender to whatever is regardless? Including the need to change what might be subjectively termed a negative painful suffering experience?

I look forward to the uPdates of whether this experience keeps going on and spreading itself or you come back to a state of being you were in earlier.  Will it be permanent and now all things are seen from this perspective or will it become a reference point of sorts to look back on?

Regardless blessings to you and all the others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well Ariel, this sounds like a temporary state people get in where by the mind is extremely quiet like being on natural tranquilizers.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s interesting and fascinating to hear your articulation of it.  How long will this last is the million dollar question.</p>
<p>I like when you end with &#8220;A big and critical difference that&#8217;s present this time is not trying to hold onto this experience, but allowing whatever is to be. Whether I’m enlightened or unenlightened is totally okay. All options are completely acceptable. There’s no clinging to any experience. There’s just stillness.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Not holding on to the experience but allowing whatever is to be&#8221; is probably going to extend the length of the experience.</p>
<p>What interest me is, if this is a prolonged experience of weeks or more etc. and you stay on this level of beingness, how does that change the way if at all, how you respond to the world or others etc. Do desires now take a back seat or front seat? Neither or both, or something else?</p>
<p>What do you do if anything different when you really hit what would be termed a very negative experience or high frustration that would put you in a place where you had to process your emotions to find your way back a certain equilibrium. Or does that simply not show uP?  Or, if it does, the process work of the past is not needed as you accept and surrender to whatever is regardless? Including the need to change what might be subjectively termed a negative painful suffering experience?</p>
<p>I look forward to the uPdates of whether this experience keeps going on and spreading itself or you come back to a state of being you were in earlier.  Will it be permanent and now all things are seen from this perspective or will it become a reference point of sorts to look back on?</p>
<p>Regardless blessings to you and all the others.</p>
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		<title>By: Lissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 15:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you soo much for sharing. Very reassuring! :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Lissas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://raw-foods-rawk.blogspot.com/2009/02/my-decision.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My decision&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you soo much for sharing. Very reassuring! <img src='http://www.youaretrulyloved.com/enlightenment/wp-includes/images/smilies/smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Lissas last blog post..<a href="http://raw-foods-rawk.blogspot.com/2009/02/my-decision.html">My decision</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: buddhaofhollywood</title>
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		<dc:creator>buddhaofhollywood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 07:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have a wonderful gift with words.
Your story is so well crafted, so perfect.
How do you comment on that?
You don&#039;t, you just enjoy it.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;buddhaofhollywoods last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/2009/02/living-in-material-world-part-ii.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Living in a material world - Part II&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have a wonderful gift with words.<br />
Your story is so well crafted, so perfect.<br />
How do you comment on that?<br />
You don&#8217;t, you just enjoy it.</p>
<p><abbr><em>buddhaofhollywoods last blog post..<a href="http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/2009/02/living-in-material-world-part-ii.html">Living in a material world &#8211; Part II</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Nichi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nichi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 04:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God bless you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God bless you</p>
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		<title>By: Sumiran</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sumiran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 03:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi,
It is intoxicating even to hear from you.
Cheers!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sumirans last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://odyssey2self-sumiran.blogspot.com/2009/02/destiny-or-freewill.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Destiny or Freewill?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi,<br />
It is intoxicating even to hear from you.<br />
Cheers!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Sumirans last blog post..<a href="http://odyssey2self-sumiran.blogspot.com/2009/02/destiny-or-freewill.html">Destiny or Freewill?</a></em></abbr></p>
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